Safety tips
Last updated 16 October 2026
Most people you meet here are exactly who they say they are. These habits keep it that way.
Before you meet
- Chat for a while first. Move to a video call to check they match their photos.
- Look for the verified badge, but remember it is not a guarantee.
- Never send money, even if the story is urgent or sad.
- Keep your phone number, address and workplace private until you trust them.
When you meet
- Choose a busy public place for the first meeting.
- Tell a friend who you are meeting, where and when.
- Arrange your own transport so you can leave when you want.
- Keep an eye on your drink and trust your instincts.
If something feels wrong
Leave, contact someone you trust, and report the profile. In an emergency call 999 or 112.


