Safety tips

Last updated 16 October 2026

Most people you meet here are exactly who they say they are. These habits keep it that way.

Before you meet

  • Chat for a while first. Move to a video call to check they match their photos.
  • Look for the verified badge, but remember it is not a guarantee.
  • Never send money, even if the story is urgent or sad.
  • Keep your phone number, address and workplace private until you trust them.

When you meet

  • Choose a busy public place for the first meeting.
  • Tell a friend who you are meeting, where and when.
  • Arrange your own transport so you can leave when you want.
  • Keep an eye on your drink and trust your instincts.

If something feels wrong

Leave, contact someone you trust, and report the profile. In an emergency call 999 or 112.